I dont usually review episodes, but I had to comment on the storyline with Casey and Izzie.
Given how much judgement Casey had about her mom, and the way she continued to punish her, I knew from the get go it was only a matter of time before Casey found herself in a similar position. It's the quickest, easiest way to create that understanding within her towards her mom. I will admit, it took me a little longer to catch on that it would be with Izzie. I'm disappointed for a number of reasons, but I'll explore the main 3:
1. It suggests that a person's understanding can only come from what they themselves have experienced, and shows a lack of depth and empathy of the character. It is the easiest way to inevitably help Casey find forgiveness for her mom, but the source of of it is ultimately selfish and that makes the forgiveness meaningless.
2. It reinforces the idea that you cant be that close to someone, or love someone, without it becoming romantic. First society creates the notion that men and women cant just be friends, but now women and women cant just be friends either? It cheapens the bond between the two friends, and feels unnecessary.
3. It creates the idea that, no matter how a person feels about cheating, or how good a relationship is, in the right circumstances a person will cheat. But that's not true, because it is a choice - a difficult choice, but a choice nonetheless. Not only that, but doing it this way steals the attention from the love between Casey and Izzie.
The worst part is it didn't need to happen. They could have had Casey acknowledge her feelings towards Izzie, understand her moms actions and confusion about the bartender and dad, and still honor her relationship with Evan. She could have been honest with Evan about what almost happened and either worked through it or broken up, acknowledged her feelings to Izzie and either explored them further or explained why she couldn't, and confided in her mom about the experience and that she understood her mom more but was using her betrayal as a lesson to do things differently. The writers went for the obvious drama, and not only is it below the standard of such an amazing show, it is too easy, unnecessary and cheap.
Given how much judgement Casey had about her mom, and the way she continued to punish her, I knew from the get go it was only a matter of time before Casey found herself in a similar position. It's the quickest, easiest way to create that understanding within her towards her mom. I will admit, it took me a little longer to catch on that it would be with Izzie. I'm disappointed for a number of reasons, but I'll explore the main 3:
1. It suggests that a person's understanding can only come from what they themselves have experienced, and shows a lack of depth and empathy of the character. It is the easiest way to inevitably help Casey find forgiveness for her mom, but the source of of it is ultimately selfish and that makes the forgiveness meaningless.
2. It reinforces the idea that you cant be that close to someone, or love someone, without it becoming romantic. First society creates the notion that men and women cant just be friends, but now women and women cant just be friends either? It cheapens the bond between the two friends, and feels unnecessary.
3. It creates the idea that, no matter how a person feels about cheating, or how good a relationship is, in the right circumstances a person will cheat. But that's not true, because it is a choice - a difficult choice, but a choice nonetheless. Not only that, but doing it this way steals the attention from the love between Casey and Izzie.
The worst part is it didn't need to happen. They could have had Casey acknowledge her feelings towards Izzie, understand her moms actions and confusion about the bartender and dad, and still honor her relationship with Evan. She could have been honest with Evan about what almost happened and either worked through it or broken up, acknowledged her feelings to Izzie and either explored them further or explained why she couldn't, and confided in her mom about the experience and that she understood her mom more but was using her betrayal as a lesson to do things differently. The writers went for the obvious drama, and not only is it below the standard of such an amazing show, it is too easy, unnecessary and cheap.
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