I want anyone that reads this to let this episode be a lesson to you. A person's character is EVERYTHING.
Gary was a fool to ever even contemplate getting involved with this woman because she was already with his brother. If she was with any man, Gary should have known better to not get involved.
A woman who is willing to date one man while living with another is CLEARLY no good. And a bad character is a rotten person. It kills me that people do not understand this.
I had a girlfriend for 7 years and everyone saw us as the perfect couple to learn from about a strong bond. But one day she decides she wants to start fooling around with another guy and lying to me. And he knew all about our relationship.
But they kept cheating and lying to me. I cut ties and left and warned her family that any man who is willing to step into a long-term relationship just because he wants what he wants is NOT a good man. I told them to be careful with that. And I left and never spoke to them again.
If a person's core is rotten, they will have no issues with betraying you or doing worse and ending you.
If a woman or man is willing to leave someone else for you, then they will have no issue leaving you for another later.
Character is EVERYTHING and it hardly ever changes. When you see red flags, take them seriously.
Ignoring red flags and intuition is usually when people get hurt or dead.